Disappointed? Check your Expectations.......

When we have expectation, the only one who knows there is one is us.
When we try to enforce that illusion on situations and others it will, most of he time lead to disappointment.
When we stop creating an illusionary story into the future and are more present to what IS, we can be less rigid by allowing and not forcing things into that unrealistic expectation..
I have lived my life in a very constant state of expectation and disappointment, not just in my own need to control the outcome, but by never living up to the expectations of others.
When people become disappointed, they don't get angry at themselves for buying the lie if their expectation - they direct it at the person or situation and blame it or them for their deception. Creating damaging wounds that are hard to heal.
Having expectation is an immature thinking, deceiving us into trying to control the outcome- Faith is the maturity that tells us to accept what is, surrender and allow people and things to be as they are, and make our choices in the present, based in peace and truth.- Marianne Goldweber- Personal and Spiritual Development-Psychic Services

Be Gentle..we are all works in progress- a note from Mother To Son.

Marianne Goldweber

March 14

To my son,

You don't have to have all the answers, we are works in progress.

When you face things that you can't control, hand it over through faith to the Divine Source.

Even in our flawed humaness we are students and teachers.

Be as gentle with yourself as you would a child. We are all ignorant of something, no matter how old we are.

Learn to laugh at yourself...some of this is just ridiculousness.

Learn, love and shine- Your light in this world is a beacon; to sail by,and to lead the way for others.

Today's challenges are temporary and the sun will come up again tomorrow.

There is a reason we can't see the future..It's a surprise!

Nothing good or bad is permanent.

Take risk, never let fear rule your choices or your experiences.

People are going to disappoint and hurt You, it's not personal. You will hurt and disappoint people, it's not personal.

Take the risk of falling in love, don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. Even if it doesn't work out.

Trust your inner voice, it will never let you down.

Be brilliant, don't stay small because you don't want to offend others.

And above all, be happy. I will love you no matter what..really..I am your biggest fan and will defend and protect you. Even when you are wrong, and make lesser choices, I will remind you that you are better than that..and stand in the fire with you...You'll understand that kind of love one day.

Love Mom- Marianne Goldweber

Marianne Goldweber

Living a life of purpose requires we use our past, not as a weapon to punish ourselves or others but rather to use the past only to fashion tools that we will use to build a future for ourselves and others.- Marianne Goldweber

Weighing Fear...

I've seen and experienced some seriously scary s*** in this life. I have been present to devastating tragedy.
A bad day is when the police show up at your door to tell you that your husband was in a life threatening accident.
Or you lose a child to addiction or tragic events.
Or going to bed and your house catches on fire.
Its all about perspective.
So, before you post your bad day experience, weigh it against how bad it could be, stop and say thank you.- Marianne Goldweber

A long time ago my son came to me with some of his little friends and said...Mom- we've noticed that you are no fun lately. I came to realize that I was not fun because I was not having fun. I was  attacking my 'to do'  resentfully and critically. At that time- work work work- I made work a bad thing.
Our children are a reminder that in the sacred balance Joy is part of the equation.

In this reflective time at winters end, I realized I have created this amazing Life- winter provided me some much needed re-evaluating. Life being what it is, we can get swept away in activity and doing- so in returning to 'center' I reflected on my Core Principles. These are;  Love, Peace, Joy, Faith, Service, Compassion and Accountability. These are  the foundation of  my Faith and Life.

I reminded myself that I AM Love I AM Peace, I AM Joy and so forth. Therefore-  anything that takes me away from that plan must be re-evaluated. It's in this process that we tell the Universe that we are accountable to our own well being- that we have faith- that we are setting a higher standard of responsibility for ourselves- clearing the way to an Abundant and Peaceful life- committed to Serving Humanity unconditionally.

end of the world...as we know it.

Happy New Year!

When the Great Shift occurred on Dec 21,2012 everyone asked ‘Is the world ending’ and my answer was yes…but not in the way you will expect.

In came 2013, and the shift began, we were leaving the prophesied Fourth world of Separation and were entering the Fifth World of Peace. But peace must be earned, by removing all the things that separate us- Hate, fear, judgment, chaos, blame…and so it began…

2013 was a year filled with removing of our blocks to peace…people, situations, ways of thinking, material things. Yes, 2013 was a year of ‘Taking out the trash’ which left us with big empty spaces…thank the heavens.

It was a year of upheaval and destruction- of assessing and deciding- of releasing and reaffirming;  2013 has been a year of hard work,  harder than most of us have worked in our entire lives…and now it is ending.

2013 is ending,  with clear spaces in our hearts, our homes and our souls…. 

What will we create in 2014?...ahhh that is the question- anything is possible!

 Abundant Blessings in the coming New Year my friends- Marianne Goldweber

Shifting Perspective- A Life Skill

Marianne Goldweber

6 hours ago via mobile

The ability to step into another person's perspective is a life skill. Being judgmental or critical of others is a sign of ignorance. Seeing ourselves through them shows moral maturity. Until we've experienced everything someone else has, we can never completely understand. We assume everyone has had the life we've had or the opportunities we've had.
I remember having a childhood acquaintance whose hair was always greasy and she wasn't always clean. It wasn't until we were adults that I found out that her mother used shampoo, soap and bathing as a cruel punishment. She suffered greatly at home and the hands of many bullies and judgmental people. I cried and asked her why she never told anyone. She said she didn't think anyone would understand. So she suffered in silence and accepted her lot.
Never judge a man until you've walked a mile in his moccasins- Until then we will never fully understand-Marianne Goldweber