Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Disappointed? Check your Expectations.......

When we have expectation, the only one who knows there is one is us.
When we try to enforce that illusion on situations and others it will, most of he time lead to disappointment.
When we stop creating an illusionary story into the future and are more present to what IS, we can be less rigid by allowing and not forcing things into that unrealistic expectation..
I have lived my life in a very constant state of expectation and disappointment, not just in my own need to control the outcome, but by never living up to the expectations of others.
When people become disappointed, they don't get angry at themselves for buying the lie if their expectation - they direct it at the person or situation and blame it or them for their deception. Creating damaging wounds that are hard to heal.
Having expectation is an immature thinking, deceiving us into trying to control the outcome- Faith is the maturity that tells us to accept what is, surrender and allow people and things to be as they are, and make our choices in the present, based in peace and truth.- Marianne Goldweber- Personal and Spiritual Development-Psychic Services

Friday, March 14, 2014

Be Gentle..we are all works in progress- a note from Mother To Son.

To my son,

You don't have to have all the answers, we are works in progress.

When you face things that you can't control, hand it over through faith to the Divine Source.

Even in our flawed humaness we are students and teachers.

Be as gentle with yourself as you would a child. We are all ignorant of something, no matter how old we are.

Learn to laugh at yourself...some of this is just ridiculousness.

Learn, love and shine- Your light in this world is a beacon; to sail by,and to lead the way for others.

Today's challenges are temporary and the sun will come up again tomorrow.

There is a reason we can't see the future..It's a surprise!

Nothing good or bad is permanent.

Take risk, never let fear rule your choices or your experiences.

People are going to disappoint and hurt You, it's not personal. You will hurt and disappoint people, it's not personal.

Take the risk of falling in love, don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. Even if it doesn't work out.

Trust your inner voice, it will never let you down.

Be brilliant, don't stay small because you don't want to offend others.

And above all, be happy. I will love you no matter what..really..I am your biggest fan and will defend and protect you. Even when you are wrong, and make lesser choices, I will remind you that you are better than that..and stand in the fire with you...You'll understand that kind of love one day.

Love Mom- Marianne Goldweber

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Living a life of purpose requires we use our past, not as a weapon to punish ourselves or others but rather to use the past only to fashion tools that we will use to build a future for ourselves and others.- Marianne Goldweber